[wpedon id=”12836″ align=”right”]The Gray Rock Method -How to treat toxic people

The definition of a toxic person can vary as one perceives it, but in general, the definition accepted corresponds to a person that acts negative, who always sees the negative side of things and complains of everything frequently. Always that person is the victim of the circumstances and is never responsible for anything that happens.
On the other hand, if we see this from the energy point of view, that person is an ‘energy vampire’; it bases its existence in order to function thanks to the energy it extracts from the other people around it.

In the blog, we an article called ‘the responsibility of self’. The information contained is very useful for someone that would like to take control of its own life and avoid to be a toxic person.

From the moment we have consciousness, we become responsible for our actions. Either we like it or not, it is so. You cannot blame a baby or a child who is just learning and finding his way on earth as a responsible being. They have consciousness, but it has not yet been manifested. Saturn’s cycles help us understand that.

However, once the person develops and has the manifestation of consciousness, that person knows what is right and what is wrong and begins to understand that its actions have an effect both on itself and on others.

During our upbringing, we learn from others, this can be good or not in some cases, it will depend on the environment where we were raised. The natal chart tells us about the characteristics with which we come to this plane, and our ‘personality’ is forge from the combination of these both aspects.

At this moment on social media, is circulating something defined as ‘the gray rock method’. This provides the basis on how to handle a toxic person.

No one is exempt from this situation since we find toxic people at work, with friends of friends, with family, neighbors and others. They are people with whom we cannot cut the relationship for the circumstances in which we are.

The gray rocks method argue that when observing something that seemed does not have life, it is of a color that does not produce a positive emotional reaction, it has no movement, one gets bored of looking at it and looks for something else. They could be rocks or anything else that produces the same reaction, but the definition is worth.

Therefore, the comparison is good in order to understand the reaction of interacting with a toxic person as with gray stones. You should not get involve, ignore it, look for something else, or position yourself on a neutral state.
We have written on the blog about this on several occasions, where we talked about the neutral state, which is achieved by putting ourselves as the ‘observer of the situation’ without taking part of it.

As the ‘observer’, you don’t get emotionally involved of what you have in front of you. You just observe. That will get you into a neutral state, so no energy is transferred. A toxic person will stop interacting with you for the simple reason that you don’t put out any energy (neither positive or negative), it will not get fed from you, so it will leave you alone and it will go looking for another ‘victim’.
Do not get into arguments, do not try to change their opinion or your gaze on things, things are the way they are. You have enough with your own life. Just let them continue on their way, they also have free will, they can choose.

Just be conscious on how you manage your energy, there are people out there that feed from what ever energy you release.